Tuesday, January 10, 2006
4:26 PM
Platonic friendship...fact or fiction?
i've always wondered about close friendships between mars and venus. Closeness and emotional attachment often result in developing feelings for the other party. The fact that expressing your feelings towards the other party for some reason always end up affecting the friendship shared. i was talking to nurul the other day and she mentioned that there is a 50-50 chance of either making it and taking it to another level, or it just breaks ie. moving away from each other and losing that closeness. but what's certain, is dat it won't be normal again...
scenario 1: close frens for x years...he tells her he likes her...she doesnt reciprocate...it juz dissolves
scenario 2: close frens for x years...he misinterprets her actions...but she just treats him like a brother...nothing more
scenario 3: close frens for x years...like each other...afraid to tell for fear of affecting the friendship...nuthin happens
So...does it pay to express ur feelings to ur close close fren (its bound to happen u noe) and risk it all? what's ur take???
.sincera fazzy.