Thursday, January 12, 2006
12:45 AM
Relationships - a complex mould of interpersonal emotions
i seriously diden expect to like update my blog daily hahaha but oh well sch's juz a week old and no pressure yet whatsoever =p ok anyway, perhaps i got my answer to my question in my prev posting...rhetorical huh? haha i guess not expressing ur feelings to ur 'other half' kinda serves as a self-defence function (not martial arts self-defence but emotional defence). by not expressing urself, u get to treat him/her as a real close fren and not get hurt in the face of rejection or the 'never-gonna-be-the-same-again-kind-of-friendship...maybe this self-defence thingy does work oni dat both of u will never try and will never know how u feel for each other...(dat sux)
it goes to show that relationships be it platonic, does spark a flame of emotion yet moulds a simple situation into one dat is complex and unpredictable. the risk will be there...depends on whether u wanna try or remain in the comfort zone of that special bond both share...
.sincera fazzy.