I tink in my prev prev post, i 'showcased' (chey wah haha) all the events dat i have coming up...yeah im really really tired...especially FOC ar. I noe everyone seem super psyched up to be planning it especially programmes, grand finale etc but for me...logistics is a real headache. Logistics is a comm that has to PRODUCE things in the sense that we have 2 cater to what others want...which is tough la. and to make it worse is that people keep changing and changing and adding more stuff and the list becomes very headachy haha (got such a word?).

Booking of facilities is troublesome. its not as if u juz go to OSA or wad and sae 'hi, i need the rooms for dis date and time. thanks.' Nooooooo...OSA ngan dorang punye bureaucratic stuff nak proposal la...nak name of caterer la...menu la...if play movie or music muz have license la...bla bla bla and it becomes my duty 2 twist and turn the programme so dat OSA will be satisfied wif it. And of coz other comm would juz sae 'fadzli, can u help book the place? thx' i mean as nice as i am...i do have 2 hands and 2 comm members under me. smlm nye meeting wen dey finally recee the function and dining hall dey realise its not wad they have in mind. now i hav 2 go find a suitable location. i hate last minute work coz u are competing with others who do have camps.

i juz feel dat pple dont value my judgement and it is frustrating at times. its not as if i nvr inform pple for eg. i inform the comm dat there is to be a nussu camp on the same period so thr would be some places where there might clash and hence need 2 book locations faster2. but of coz pple sae the more the merrier. den the case of grand finale sitting on the ground to makan..i said ants will come. yeah of coz dey want kampung style. so up to dem...

oh one more point which hakim brot up....this scenario sounds familiar:

'eh kite nak speakers/van/logs stuff/sponsorship.....tanye mendaki ah mesti ade'

we have come to become dependent on mendaki and seem to treat them as a logistics base. what i feel is that pbm or ms seem to be 'begging'. How is Mendaki supposed to rise up 2 portray its image as a self-help organization and champion malay success if its future leaders (meaning us) treat it as a logistic ie begging hub?

im truly sorri if i hurt anyone. i noe its not fair to maly or kamie or whoever else in foc that i might have been sarcastic with. U guys are great. i truly mean it. i noe foc will be a blast =) but people have their own rights to how dey feel and some things that tick me off. u pple noe im patient and seem easy going but yea...i do have a stressed side to myself. so dont take all this personally im still ur nice, helpful, responsible logs/transport/accommodation head.

boo yah =)

You rank up there with your seduction skills, though you might not know it.
That's because you're a natural at seduction. You don't realize your power!
The root of your natural seduction power: your innocence and optimism.

You're the type of person who happily plays around and creates a unique little world.
Little do you know that your personal paradise is so appealing that it sucks people in.
You find joy in everything - so is it any surprise that people find joy in you?

You bring back the inner child in everyone you meet with your sincere and spontaneous ways.
Your childlike (but not childish) behavior also inspires others to care for you.
As a result, those who you befriend and date tend to be incredibly loyal to you.


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hahaha juz try it out....but yea dun belive wholesale la...u are who u r....AI don't have the capacity to tell u what u are. its juz guesswork...

haha my hols have been totally filled up by sch activities..so much for resting =p all coming one after the other. First was perkampungan bahasa...a camp which i diden get 2 spend much time wif the kids coz i was wif the guys and we were everywhere....but nowhere. sigh...taking food, buat air, angkat bag, hantar org etc2 the list juz goes on and on...its kinda frustrating dat u keep being told by others wad to do. of coz tolong ngan ikhlas but den i juz feel i can do more than juz being an 'org suruhan'.

Next is my perguruan's participation in PSK. Have to go support those taking part for most part of my weekends and at the same time think of steps for the tunas harapan ganda team. not forgetting im also the team manager for nus silat and there are loads of things 2 do like food, banner painting, thinking up cheers, transport and all the countless admin stuff. alhamdulillah my hand's getting better...so i can make better use of it :p oh yea and during the silat camp itself, i gotta go to jamiyah for the darul ma'wa carnival....we kambings setting up a stall there to raise funds...so come down k?????

To top everythin else, is the upcoming FOC....guess wad? im in logs again hahaa but dun worri i will do my job to the bez of my ability and insya allah everythin will run smoothly and yay will all hv fun!!!

Aightz....damn tiring sia but wad a way to end the day wif a kambing outing at Amirah's Grill...u noe one of those shisha2 places @ Bugis hahaha was falling asleep at the FOC meeting (woopsie...dun glare at me maly =p) had a nice outing wif the kambings heh its always the same kerenah2 - zaki as lame as ever, ali and tabr gile nak mampos, the gals cam whoring the nite away and of coz me the docile one oso got hooked into the gile spirit :p oh and jannah came along =)

some pics that i took...kinda coupley lar...but was fun hehehe

Ok i guess pple might sae im an abnormal guy coz i actually bought a book by Allan and Barbara Pease on Why Men Dont Have a Clue and Women Need More Shoes haha its one of those books 2 enhance relationships like Men are from Mars, Women from Venus. That book i mentioned earlier is the 2nd installation by the Pease (i read the 1st one coz jannah made me =p)

I guess i shall update bits and pieces as i go along hehe juz for information for those who are interested...Nagging is common place for all relationships ie bf/gf, husband/wife, mother/children, in-laws/wife and etc Nagging is done in hope that it will spur the victim to positive action and to be made to feel guilty for nt completing somethin yet...it creates a retreatist mechanism and a defensive barrier that the victim hides behind. Nagging then contributes to communication breakdowns between partners (so dats bad) i guess the solution is 2 be engaging and be inclusive in solving problems, instead if an indirect way of communicating wad u wan which will moz of the time, be interpreted incorrectly

some funny quotes dat im sure u hav heard b4 =p
a) A woman needs to know but one man well to understand all men; whereas a man may know all the women and not understand one of them - Helen Rowland

b) If a woman slaps a man in public, everyone assumes that he's in the wrong

c) Types of Nagging:
1. Single-Subject Nag: "Da vacuum rumah? Nanti vacuum tau jangan lupe. 5 mins later...cepat vacuum nanti petang nak kluar. ...etc etc
2. Multi-Nag: "Kol brape balik skolah? Jangan balik lambat2. Jgn balik ngan laki2, beli roti time nak balik...."
3. Beneficial-Nag: " Skrg masenye utk belajar. Kalau nak berkawan tu bole tapi ingat, jangan buat bende2 yg tk senonoh. Keluar tu jage anak orang lain. Its all for your safety etc"

hahaha =p