Wednesday, April 18, 2007
11:37 AM
Life's an exam
Quoted by Chiep..."It is an exam that we will have to score when we are judged on judgement day. Subahanallah. And this is an exam we must score, insya-Allah".
And during the course of life's exam, we face many trials and tribulations, mini-successes, huge successes, sorrows and happiness, comfort and discomfort. We fail and we bounce back. And sometimes we achieve success, it suddenly gets taken away from us. Its not about the failure and successes of studying/education but also in family, love, relationships, friends, jobs, society - everything around us. I experienced it lots of it and so does everyone else too...u can be realli smart one year, and suddenly ur cap/results drop. U can be great frens wif someone for the longest time ever, but den it suddenly drift. U are the height of ur sports career and suddenly injury strikes.
When the going gets really tough, its distractions that you need to keep u going. Distractions in music, sport, hobbies, family members, lovers, eye candy haha...and yes friends :) And i do believe in friends because dey keep us going with their craziness and their concern and their heartfelt presence. And friends always are on ur side, no matter whose fault it is. Sometimes its good, sometimes its bad. Sometimes they say nasty things, sometimes they say the sweetest things.
Things go bad...and u find urself in a lose-lose, lose-win position. Its inevitable but always strive for the win-win situation. Happiness comes around when its win-win (its one of the 7 habits of highly effective pple! haha)...dats the ideal, to say the least.
Maly asked....what is missing in life that is always present? I said love. She said death. Both are right and both are what keeps us going and make it as fulfilling as possible.
"We dance around in a ring and suppose, But the secret sits in the middle and knows"
Life is an exam...but for now...we have NUS exams to be concerned with hehe all the best and good luck! Actually, i dun need 2 wish u all luck...coz i noe dat u all can do it without the luck from me. :)
.sincera fazzy.
