Friday, September 28, 2007
12:51 AM
Wet Iftar
Dis time round, there were even fewer pple. ade busy, ade step ade meeting, ade bubble....seme nk kene strike! hahhaha but oh well, it was raining and by the time we got to masjid khalid...kinda wet (luckily got payung...shad asked muk 2 bring haha) but other than dat, walking ard was fun! getting dendeng, ayam percik and also got myself a baju kurung hahaha thx to my fashion consultants, muz and azmeer....yg diden do much. juz stood around and sae 'ok pe...' haha we also played dis game...sape paling byk jumpe org yg kenal. Harun won. He knew like 5 pple...i oni found 2 frens. I need 2 expand my social network!
Fazli gave me dis book to reach...'When to quit and when to stick around'. Its basically abt this concept of 'dip'. Sometimes when u set ur sights to do something, it might be successful at first and ur interest for it is like woah! but after awhile, it becomes mundane and no matter how hard u try, u find it so difficult to excel/succeed. Dats when u face dis loooooong dip. If u survive it, then u will find urself on the road to success. But, how do u noe when to quit? When is it dat its a dip OR if its juz a dead-end. Ure not meant to succeed in wadever ure doing now. Sometimes its hard to quit coz ure juz comfortable or too scared to do so.
So how??? hahaha u can actually apply dis concept even to relationships. Think....the lousy period when u keep quarelling. But once u hold thru...its comfortable and sweet. Budden, how do u noe how long the dip will last? perhaps its not even a dip...its time for u to re-think how much u wan 2 be in this r/ship. Wen is it dat enough is enough?
.sincera fazzy.
